Thoughts & Updates

A beautiful service to celebrate the birth of Jesus! Many thanks to all those who served and attended to make it such a wonderful experience! 

Many thank to everyone who helped decorate for Christmas and to all those who bought poinsettias! The church looked beautiful!! 

Congratulations to Emilea and Bryson who were baptized Sunday December 23rd. We're excited not only that they became followers of Jesus but also that their parents Anna-Kate and Patrick became members when Bishop Lee visited on December 2nd. We're thrilled the Millers are at Grace! 

Years ago, a colleague gave me two tickets to a Friday night performance of the North Carolina Symphony in Raleigh. Someone had given the person better seats. After a long week, Cindy and I were too tired to go. The next week my colleague angrily chewed me out, saying that those tickets had cost a lot of money.

That incident started me thinking how gifts often come with strings. I was expected to attend the symphony. It didn’t matter that we were exhausted. Our need for rest was secondary. The giver’s desire was more important.

Everything but the kitchen sink?  No way! We included it, too!  New kitchen countertops, stove AND kitchen sink have been installed!!  These renovations are part of our five-year long effort to upgrade the interior of our building!

Many new people tell me that the inside feels inviting.  I’m excited to hear that because that was our hope! We never sought to create anything luxurious. You won’t find marble or quartz!  You will find a bright, clean and warm space.

Years ago, when my family rented a beach front house on Emerald Isle, I loved watching the sunrise.  As I sat on the weathered, wooden deck with a mug of coffee, the still, early, summer morning felt like a gentle hug. Lulling waves gently crashed against the sand.  Occasionally, a distant dog bark or bird cry punctuated the quiet air. A person or two walked or jogged on the beach below. Above, the sky gradually became streaked and splashed with red, orange, purple, and pink as night gave way to day.

The four-week season of Advent that begins this Sunday reminds us that the birth of Christ is not about what we do but what God does.  Instead of getting sucked into a swirl of incessant activity, Advent encourages us to take a step back, to let go of some of the to-do’s and to experience the quiet expectation of waiting for the birth of Jesus.  If we do, Advent will reveal the hued beauty of God’s love as the world’s darkness gives way to the light of Christ.

Water ruined almost everything she owned.  People are now assessing whether to gut the New Bern home of my sister-in-law’s mother.  My sister-in-law and brother were luckier.  Florence ripped off part of their Emerald Isle home’s roof, drenching the inside but apparently not totaling it.

While, thankfully, we in Johnston and Wake Counties were spared the brunt of Florence, our sisters and brothers to the east felt its punishing power for days.  The worst is yet to come for many, too, as the flood waters continue to rise.

Hope you're having a great summer! Back by popular demand is our summer film sermon series! Over the next six weeks from Sunday July 22 - Sunday August 26, we'll look at different movies from 2018. Okay, it might not be back by popular demand, but we're doing it again, anyway! It gives me a chance to watch some flicks that I wouldn't see otherwise, and, hopefully, relates Jesus' message in a way relevant for all of us. What have been your favorite films this year? Reply to me with your favs. They don't have to be "religious" or "Christian." Many non-religious films have faith themes or important messages. I want to include movies that have struck a chord with you, or you've simply enjoyed. It's summer, after all!Hope to see you this Sunday July 22nd for the kickoff of our Faith in Film Sermon Series, when we talk about Incredibles 2! Blessings, John GibsonPastor

They’re often the most difficult people in our lives. Others who know them think they’re nice. Frequently, they are, but they can also be our greatest challenge. They’re the ones closest – our family and co-workers. They aren’t necessarily difficult in and of themselves. They simply get under your skin. They don’t listen to you. They question you and tell you what to do. They leave their stuff strewn everywhere. They don’t do their share at home or at work. The people closest are the ones most likely to drive you nuts. While we all need to talk through issues and, at times, take advantage of counseling, prayer does wonders. Jesus teaches, “pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). When I pray for the person giving me fits, the situation generally improves somehow. I don’t know whether God changes the other person’s heart or mine, but something changes. Praying for God to bless a challenging co-worker or loved one doesn’t mean being a doormat or suffering abuse. If you’re in an abusive relationship, get help. God wants you to be free from that abuse. If you are struggling with a difficult person, pray for God to fill him or her with the light, love, joy and peace of Christ. You might struggle to pray for someone you’d rather strangle at that moment. While it is easier to lash out in anger, the way of the cross is the way of life. When you pick up your cross, when you pray in the way of Jesus, you unleash the life changing power of God’s love in your life and your relationships. Blessings, John Click here to read Part 1.  

 

Danny and Pastor John added a balloon to our sign to make our church's location more noticeable to people passing on Highway 42.  This is part of our outreach to the community. 

Another great Sunday at GEC!   

Last week Cindy and I had two dead trees removed.  While the men were working, one of our neighbors left a long voicemail complaining that they weren’t using a crane.  If anything fell on her fence, we would have to pay.

Later that same morning she came over to tell me that debris from other trees on our property were falling on her deck.  She wanted them removed, too.

It was a joyful Sunday celebrating Ashton's baptism!  

A great celebration of 50 years of marriage!  Paula and Don renewed their wedding vows during the service, today! 

We give thanks for our great Dads! 

“Membership doesn’t matter in Episcopal churches,” said someone to me Tuesday.  Sadly, that is true in many Episcopal congregations.  It’s symptomatic of an anti-institutionalism that has swept American society since the end of the 1960’s.

 

We had a great Sunday!  Thanks to Kate Walker, who spoke on behalf of the Episcopal Farmworker Ministry, to all those who donated clothing and other things for our brothers and sisters in the fields and to Fr. Frank, who took these photos!  

There is a longline of books with titles like Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers.  Their theme is the importance of change.  They make a good point.  Times change and organizations need to change, too.  We’ve made a lot of changes at our church, upgrading the interior of our facility, strengthening our worship, and expanding our ministries.  And we need to continue to change to serve God, our members and our community.

 

We had a great celebration of Pentecost, the day the Holy Spirit came upon the disciples in Jerusalem, our graduating High School Seniors and our youth!  The choir from El Buen Pastor (the Good Shepherd) joined us for the service parts of which were in English, Spanish, French and Spanish.  Our altar guild and friends did a great job decorating the church for the great day!  Thank you to everyone who made it such an exciting celebration! 

Sunday is a big day!  It’s Pentecost, one of the three main holy days of the year, when we remember the gift of the Holy Spirit to the church and to each person who walks in the way of Jesus.  We’ve got a great service lined up for this day!

Since on the Day of Pentecost the Holy Spirit empowered the disciples to speak in other languages, our service will be multilingual.  There will be prayers and songs in Spanish.  The choir from El Buen Pastor (The Good Shepherd) will be with us for the third year in a row.  Marguerite will sing a song in French and English.  Samantha will sign the Lord’s Prayer.  Of course, we will also have songs and prayers in English, too!